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Parenting Tips: How to Get Your Child to Behave Properly

Having children is arguably one of the toughest challenges in life. People get married so fast that some don't even need a week or so to make that decision. But having kids is one very different thing; there's a lot of responsibility that comes with it, including that of making them behave like you want them to.

As much as you hate to admit it, there isn't a day in which you and your child don't fight about something or anything. Early morning and you begin arguing about how important it is to brush his/her teeth. You even have to make a lot of convincing just for him/her to eat his/her vegetables. But mind you, even if you feel like there's no end to it, many kids, including yours, actually want to behave in such a way that you will be produce of them. It's just a matter of how to make that sink into them. The key is making the right actions to make them realize that you both want the same thing.

1 - Perhaps the most important thing you need to do right now is giving your child the time he/she needs to be with you. Simply put, build a stronger bond between you two. There is a good chance that you fight each other so often because you child does not want to cooperate with you, and the reason is because he/she doesn't feel you have to right to tell him/her what to do since you're seldom beside his/her side. Due to the lack of time spent with your kids, you tend to scold them whenever you're with them because their mistakes is the one you see right away. Why not spend more time with them and do some uplifting and fun activities? That way, you'll see the positive side of your child and you build from there.

2 - You feel like it's quite unfair when you've sacrificed everything for your kids when they were younger - all those sleepless nights and missing out on a weekend to the spa or salon just because you wouldn't want someone else to take care of them. And now, they're behaving in a way that you never wanted them to. Instead of scolding them for that, you must remind yourself that they don't have the sense of gratitude in them. What they understand instead is the sense of entitlement, being a kid with a parent who comes with the responsibility of taking care of them. So don't make them feel that it's a burden for you to take care of them, because in a way, it'll create some kind of rebellious tendency in them as they believe it's better to piss you off every time you're angry at them because of behaving improperly. Read more great facts on parenting tips,  click here.

3 - Do not micromanage your child's life. In fact, telling them exactly what you want them to do and how you want them to behave will most likely just create the opposite. Instead, send the message that you are very confident of your child's abilities to do things his/her own ways. In doing so, you then can reward them if they did something right. Talk to them in a way that they won't get hurt in case they did something wrong. Learn more about defiant,  go here.

4 - Finally, use sympathy to your advantage and avoid creating a power struggle. When you tell your child to ditch the tablet or TV as it is time for bed, you don't expect them to agree with you right away. On your end, it's a natural response to get mad and insist on what you want. But what happens is that you again clash right before bedtime and it usually ends in your child going to his/her room crying and hating you. Instead of getting into a shouting match, make your child feel that you don't want to compete with them with what they want. All you want is for them to do the right thing, so don't show your frustration by scolding or shouting at them. Instead, talk to them and remind them why it's not good to stay late at night and playing with devices in bedtime. Tell your child that he/she can have the device the next morning. In other words, avoid a power struggle and instead promote cooperation.

Yes, it takes time and a lot of patience to get your child to behave the way you want them, but if you don't take these small steps and instead just do what you are used to doing, then you won't have any progress in teaching your child proper behavior.
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